Templates & Triggers
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t some solutions
to the problems associated with templates and triggers. Since triggers are caused by
templates, it is not enough to just deal with the triggers themselves. You can do
this and get immediate relief from the negative emotions caused by the trigger. But
the better way would be to deal with the underlying templates that are causing the
triggers. This stops it from happening again in the future.
Change Your Circumstances
Your circumstances made your mind feed downwards a set of data
that caused the trigger. To change it you have several courses of action open to you. The
first would be to change your external circumstances. This does not really solve the
problem though. It just takes away the thing that was triggering the template.
The next time your circumstances turn out this way, you will have the problem again. In
any case the template might be based on a set of events rather than your physical
surroundings and you cannot change what has happened.
Changing Your Thoughts
The second approach would be to cause your mind to be filled with
data that is different to what you are thinking at present. In other words, you must get
your mind on other things. The creator of the childrens fantasy character Peter Pan
encouraged his readers to "think a happy thought." This was supposed to create
your desires and also make you fly. Peter Pan wasnt actually so far off after all,
because thoughts can indeed produce a feeling of joy. Positive pictures in your mind
produce positive emotions. Imagine how positive our lives would be if we made it a habit
to allow only positive thoughts to fill our minds? This is the way children think
instinctively, until they are taught to think negatively. We call this being naïve and
tell others to "grow up" and stop thinking like children.
But Jesus said,
Mark 10:15 Truly I say to you, Whoever shall not receive the
kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter into it.
Perhaps we have here a powerful way to experience the
world of the spirit, from which the Kingdom of God originates. We speak of "childlike
faith" that enables a child to more easily accept things without questioning. Perhaps
the key to this childlike faith is to think as a child, not in the sense of being foolish
enough to accept what is clearly wrong, but in ignoring all negative influences and
keeping in our minds only what is positive.
Paul writing to the Philippians says in chapter 4:8,
Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things
[are] honest, whatever things [are] just, whatever things [are] pure, whatever things
[are] lovely, whatever things [are] of good report; if [there is] any virtue, and if
[there is] any praise, think on these things.
But we have been trained to think the negative. We continually speak words of
negativism to our children. "Be careful," we warn, "youll hurt
yourself." Experience has taught us to expect bad things to happen. The world is full
of evil, and we must teach our children to avoid the evil. So we program their minds with
the knowledge of evil.
Doesnt this somehow link with what happened in the Garden of Eden? Adam and Eve
had no knowledge of evil, and they walked in perfect fellowship with God and each other.
But when they partook of the tree of knowledge of good and evil, both of these
relationships were affected. They had the knowledge of good before - everything that God
had made was good. But the knowledge of evil changed them and filled their hearts with
fear.
No wonder Satan has set up the world system to promote fear on every side. In the world
of entertainment it is clear that the more evil presentations have become the most
popular. Horror stories are the order of the day, and are prime time entertainment. The
news media thrive on stories of evil, reporting more on bad news than good news. The minds
of men are being programmed to think like Satan - full of evil and negativism.
No wonder our language is filled with fear and death, and we live our lives under a
cloud of expectancy that bad things will happen to us. When a preacher makes the positive
statement, "Something good is going to happen to you," he is considered foolish
and accused of leading people astray. "Of course it isnt true" we say,
"we all know that the chances are that something bad is going to happen to you!"
Then we have the "adult" audacity to suggest that even this bad originates
from God and we must accept it as His Will. Clearly the enemy has blinded the minds of men
and women to prevent them from experiencing the joy that God has for us. Let us go on then
to the third and the most important way of dealing with triggers.
Modifying the Templates
We saw that our emotions are triggered when a set of
circumstances matches an existing template in our inward man. This template was created by
the experiences of life. When you first faced this set of circumstances, you assessed the
situation and came to a decision, based on what little knowledge you had. Since this
probably took place in your early years, you probably came to a wrong conclusion because
of our ignorance or lack of experience at that time.
So the event was stored away in the memory, along with all the emotions that it
produced in you. Because of the influence of the Law of Sin and Death and the World System
in which we live, this emotion is often negative. So you might have locked into the
memory, feelings of fear, guilt, anger, frustration, grief and anything that might
possibly be related to bad feelings.
Since these events generally take place during the formative years of childhood or
adolescence, where the person has no previous knowledge or experience of their current
circumstances, it is in those areas of the memory that most of these templates are found.
Now years later, as you face similar circumstances, these cause this template in your
memory to surface, along with all the emotion that was locked into them. The only way you
can prevent this memory from affecting you is to either modify it or replace it with
another similar memory that has different emotional content. This can be done is various
ways.
Inner Healing
The first way to accomplish this is by means of a ministry that has come to be known in
recent years as "inner healing." This is a work of the Spirit of God, by which a
memory is modified to remove the negative emotional content. Modern Psychology has
identified that the way to remove the effects of a bad event in ones life would be
to somehow cause the person to relive the event, only this time with a happy ending.
Outside of the science fiction idea of time travel, this cannot be done in the natural.
But it can be done by the Spirit of God. You need to allow God to enter the picture of the
memory in the form of Jesus Christ. Since He was there all along, it is often possible to
"see" the Lord Jesus in your memory. His presence, particularly to a child, is
able to quell many of the feelings of fear, guilt and rejection that are locked into
childhood memories.
This, combined with a supernatural move of the Holy Spirit through another believer who
is operating under the anointing can bring about a change in the inner template. Once this
has taken place, then the inner template no longer produces negative emotions, and the
person may go through life facing similar circumstances again, but without these emotions
being triggered.
Psychiatry has tried to produce this effect naturally by a process called "shock
treatment." In this, they cause a high voltage to be applied to a persons
brain, making the memory functions of the brain less efficient. The idea behind this is
that if the memories are prevented from surfacing, they cannot cause any damage or produce
the triggers that are locked into them.
But this does not change the inward man. True
memory as we saw earlier is not contained
in the brain cells, but in the inward man. The original memory is still there locked away
in the inward man. By causing damage to the brain, the outward man is unable to
communicate effectively with the inward man, and so the trigger does not take place as
easily. But it is still there in the inward man.
Replacing Templates
The second way of bringing about a change in the inner template is by replacing it with
another similar template. Here we are dealing not so much with the emotional content of a
memory, but with behavior or decision making patterns that have become built into the
inward man. We all know that ignorance often causes us to make incorrect decisions. A
half-truth can lead you to believe a lie.
Since most of your templates were formed at times when you were still ignorant in many
areas of life, the chances are that the decisions you make and the things you believe are
mostly based on half-truths. You believe things according to your experience and
education. So anything you learn in the future is based on what you learned in the past.
This is a problem if what you learned in the past was wrong.
Lets go back to the Garden of Eden to see how this works. Adam and Eve were
placed in the garden, having no knowledge of evil, and having only the command of God to
go by. God had said that if they ate of the forbidden fruit they would die. Then on a
daily basis, God came and spoke with them, instructing them in His ways. Bear in mind that
they had no previous experience to go by. They were very much like children, learning
things for the first time. All they needed to do was to obey their fathers
instructions.
When the serpent came to deceive Eve, he did so by placing into her mind, a half-truth.
He told her that the knowledge of good and evil would make her like God, but he did not
tell her about the evil it would produce. Once she had been enticed to eat of the fruit,
she found that she did not immediately die, as God has said she would. This
"new" knowledge made her re-examine what she believed, and brought her to the
conclusion that the serpent was right. In fact she was so convinced of this, that she
boldly approached Adam and persuaded him to also eat of the fruit.
In many people there exists what is often called the "RC Factor" or
Resistance to Change. This is because they have established what they believe and the way
they want to live, and refuse to change in any way. In other words, they refuse to change
their templates. What happens then, is that the original template becomes like a chain in
the inward man. The first event produces a template, which would be the first
"link" in the chain.
Then subsequent events in life that are close, but not the same, become allied with the
original template, adding a further link to the chain. This process continues, so that any
future events or facts which are added to the memory are viewed in the light of existing
knowledge and are interpreted in that light. We call these "pre-suppositions" in
our thinking patterns.
What we dont generally realize is that our pre-suppositions are based on our
existing templates, and might be based on facts that we came to believe early in our
lives, but which were in fact incorrect. Now this incorrect knowledge leads us to
incorrect conclusions and the result is incorrect behavior.
Behaviorism
Psychologists have struggled with this idea and the modern day branch of Psychiatry put
forward by B.F. Skinner, which has come to be called "behaviorism" has sought
to remedy the situation by modifying a persons behavior patterns. The old story of
the rat in the maze originates from this area of study. The rat learns that if he goes
certain directions down the maze he will be confronted with an electric shock which cause
him pain, but if he goes the "correct" way he will obtain a reward in the form
of a piece of cheese.
This is all good and well, but how does one decide which is the "right" way
to go. Here is where the ungodly counselor falls short. He has no standard upon which to
base his judgment other than his own moral code. And his own moral code was formed by the
templates in his own life, which are motivated by the flesh. So he succeeds only in
creating another incorrect template. He makes the person simply sin in a different way.
Fortunately as believers we do not have this problem. We have the ultimate standard for
living in the "Operators Handbook" for mankind - the Holy Bible. Thus if we are
to build new templates, they can only be built upon the Word of God. The Scriptures call
this the "renewing of the mind."
Romans 12:2 And be not conformed to this world: but be ye
transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what [is] that good, and
acceptable, and perfect, will of God.
Ephesians 4:23 And be renewed in the spirit of your mind;
You can safely take the Word of God and use it to create new templates in place of the
ones that are causing you to act and react sinfully and come to wrong decisions in your
life. But how do we go about this? How can you use the Scriptures to modify the things
that have been built into you during your life? The answer in a broad sense, is the same
way we can change the things we believe - by unlearning or relearning what we thought we
knew.
This takes first of all a conscious decision to change. The will does not have in
itself the power to bring about change, but by an act of the will, you can go about doing
what is required to bring about change. This is a catch 22 situation. I dont
"feel" like making the effort to change, but unless I change, my feelings will
remain the same. So there has to be a positive reason to change or a negative reason to
not change.
Behaviorism approaches this by a series of reward/punishment dynamics. Remember the
rat? He learns that going the wrong way produces pain, whereas going the right way brings
a reward. This gives him all the motivation he needs to change. For man God has offered
His own set of rewards and punishments - we considered them earlier under blessings and
curses.
But the history of the Israelite nation shows us that this system did not have the
desired effect. Men still followed their sinful ways. It takes a much stronger motivation
to cause us to walk in Gods ways. Blessings create a motivation of desire. If the
desire is strong enough then we make the effort to bring about change. Curses use the
motivation of fear. If we fear the consequences enough, then we make the effort to change.
But both of these fail miserably. When our desire to be blessed comes into competition
with the desire to enjoy the pleasures of sin, it becomes a matter of which desire is the
greatest. When our fear of curses comes into competition with our fear of being rejected
by our friends the same thing applies. Rewards and punishments are always relative, and do
not present an absolute standard for motivation.
There is only one absolute standard, and this is what Jesus taught as being the key to
victorious living. He took the laws of God and summarized them by two simple commandments.
"You shall love the Lord with all your being, and you shall love your neighbor
as
yourself." When the Scripture speaks of this love it is referring to a form of love
that lies far deeper than the emotions of the soul. It is the love that originates from
the spirit and is sacrificial in nature.
Because man could not begin to understand this kind of love, God came down in the form
of His Son, Jesus to show it to us. In Romans chapter 5 Paul says,
7 For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure
for a good man some would even dare to die.
8 But God commends his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for
us.
This is a love that will produce in you an emotion far stronger than any desire you can
know. It will cast out all fear from you. 1 John 4:18 says,
"There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear:
because fear has torment. He that fears is not made perfect in love."
But how can I obtain this love, so that it can become my motivation for living
according to Gods Word? Romans 5:5 says,
"And hope makes not ashamed; because the love of God is shed
abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost who is given to us."
We have in the New Testament, what the Old Testament saints did not have. We have the
abiding indwelling Holy Spirit. We will be covering in detail in the next study, the role
of the Holy Spirit in bringing us to the place of living the way God wants us to live. But
let us complete this study by considering how we can go about building new templates.
Building New Templates
This can be approached in two different ways, which we are going
to call the Shotgun Approach and the Single Shot Approach.
The Shotgun Approach
This is where you apply the Word to your entire life, and thus cause new templates to
be built slowly, and changes to be applied gradually to existing templates. It is carried
out by the process of meditation. Meditation is a process by which you cause Gods
Word to be fed down into your inward man, until it begins to form new templates within
you. I will be giving you specific projects to carry out that will teach you how to use
this process. For now lets see what the Scriptures teach concerning meditation.
Psalm 1 gives us a look at the process of replacing old templates with new ones, and it
also tells us what results we can expect.
1 Blessed [is] the man that walks not in the counsel of the
ungodly, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful.
2 But his delight [is] in the law of the LORD; and in his law does he meditate day and
night.
3 And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth his fruit
in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper.
The Psalmist speaks of a person who moves away from the sinful templates built into him
through his exposure to the world system, by meditating on Gods Word day and night.
Thus we can take the Scriptures and by the process of meditation cause them to
"re-program" us in Gods ways. Note that meditation is not study. Studying
the Scriptures only causes them to be fed into the memory of the outward man.
For the Word to penetrate the inward man it must be fed in via the mind and the will by
the only means available for doing this. What is in the outward man or conscious mind can
only be understood by the five senses. So if you want the Word to sink down into the
inward man, you must convert it into a form that uses the senses. To most effectively feed
the Word inwards, you should be able to see, hear, feel, smell and taste it. This is what
the process of meditation involves.
To feed the Word downwards using the will, you must use the means that God has given us
- the vehicle of speech. God gave the method to Joshua before he entered the Promised Land
as Israels new leader. Joshua 1:8 says,
"This book of the law shall not depart out of your mouth;
but you shall meditate in it day and night, that you may observe to do according to all
that is written in it: for then you shall make your way prosperous, and then you shall
have good success."
Joshua was given two means for causing the Word to regulate his life. He was to keep
the Word "in his mouth" or speak it continually, and he was to meditate it. The
result according to God was that he would be able to do everything that the Word
commanded.
The principles that we have mentioned have been discovered a long time ago by man and
used often to the advantage of those who have applied them. You have heard the term
"brain-washing" by which a person is caused through repetition of instructions
and procedures to adopt a specific way of thinking. Some of the worlds success
philosophies teach the principle of self-suggestion, using speech as a means for creating
a success mentality and modifying ones behavior. What none of these do however, is
use Gods Word as a handbook and standard, and their motivation is self rather than
the love of God.
The Single Shot Approach
Finally, lets take a look at the single shot approach to templates. This involves
taking a single template at a time and specifically replacing it with a new one. To do
this you have to first of all become aware of your template. If you cannot see its
operation in your life ask those around you - they will be able to very easily tell you
what is wrong with you from their viewpoint.
Of course this in itself could be a template - your inability to take correction from
others. Anything that causes an uncontrollable emotion in you should signal the existence
of a template. It is often shown in displays of anger, frustration or impatience. Anything
that "gets under your skin" shows the existence of an underlying root. Of course
a template might also result in a lack of emotion, rather than an uncontrollable emotion.
For example, an inability to show normal feelings might be the result of an inner pattern.
Whatever the manifestation of your template, you must identify it, and
recognize that
your behavior pattern is motivated by self and the flesh and is therefore sinful in
Gods sight. Until you come to recognize it as sin, there is no solution for the
problem. You must replace a sinful template with a Scriptural, righteous template. If you
dont you will only be modifying the way you sin. For every sinful behavior
pattern,
you can be sure that Gods Word has the correct alternative. We saw in Ephesians 5
that Paul lists several sinful habits along with their Scriptural alternatives. We are
told to "put off" the old one and "put on" the new one. How is this
accomplished? The same way your original template was created.
You start by identifying your template, and then finding from the Word what the correct
alternative should be. Then you begin to feed the new template into the inward man by the
process of meditation and confession of the Word as we discussed above. In addition to
this, you must now start to practice the new template. You do this whenever the old one
surfaces.
As soon as your emotions are churned up by circumstances that trigger the old template,
you immediately identify it and fill your mind with the new template, until the emotion
subsides. As you practice this, the time will come that the new template will gradually
start to replace the old, and you will find yourself no longer reacting instinctively to
the old.
This is very much like bodily exercise. It takes an effort at first to make your body
do things it has not been used to doing. But as you continue it becomes easier and you
start to enjoy the new state of fitness that comes. The important thing to remember is
that like physical fitness, it is not a goal to be reached and then neglected. You soon
lose it if you stop exercising. The old template is still there, and if you allow it to
resurface it certainly will.
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